Life at the Edge - 2

You never know what will happen N why…!...? and at the end we have to accept all the things at one edge. But still we always try to organize each thing in our comfort then figure it out and start finding a way towards that. 
We continuously pinching our mind till we didn’t get the acceptable phase. However sometime we know whatever we try to predict that is just based on assumption - clouds of wonders created by our own myth. Can’t we just accept that there will be a ‘wonderful day after each night’ & ‘dark night after each wonderful day’?

Is it really necessary that things should be happen according to our like and dislike only? Or is it mandatory that we always have to live life for result oriented stuff. It would be more beneficial if we accept the situation and behaves accordingly and find our happiness in that.

Yeh agree some part of the life is really hard  - Very hard. Hard to accept – hard to behave normal – hard to be happy or beyond our tolerance level too. But still you can’t change the whole situation …Right?  

Batter accept it. Because you never say to “Time” that, Hey dude wait I can’t accept it let me manage the stuff then we will go. No you can’t.  Time never ever wait for anyone. You neither stop time nor can change. Batter just accept it as it is. But...

Start accepting all the scenarios then your mind surrender from all random thoughts. And though mind becomes free to think other or good stuff too. Don’t you think now a day’s machine and human are like same? Both having junks lolz  :P however as you knows you can get the actual performance of your pc only when there is no virus and junks. Likewise in a life too once you remove all the negative or random thoughts about whatever happens in a life then only the actual kind of junk removes. 

And a fresh mind is like a bird that can fly in each direction and enjoy the life with piece and joy.

A Friend Philosopher & Guide

A Friend-Philosopher & guide is a person who always stands by your side and help you in any manner whether it’s a matter of wealth, health or honey… :P

A person is just like an angle, that god has sent just for you, to Help - Laugh - Understand - Encourage, to give power so you can handle everything in each aspect. 


Who shapes your idea, make your dream more powerful thus become your friends-philosopher & guide….

Really, can’t express what exactly the relationship you share with them….! They come in a life like a magician & rotate their magical wand to remove all the problems and be with you like a shade, to protect you from every storm. How lucky to have an angle like them in life …

They are the best buddy for all the time because it’s not like that, you never had quarrel, or you not pool each other legs or commenting on each others but still fight will end up in 5 min or in a day. If we comment than we take a side too. You may have misunderstanding too. But that never be more than your relation. Life may show you different color of that people but still you accept them in all way. You feel lucky to have such a friend in a life and feel blessed too.

Happiness-Sadness-Success-Hurdles all have no meaning without them and life becomes colorless if you not found them around as they are real guide of our each hunt & understand our each philosophy too. if you are stumble upon or fall still you never afraid, you never feel ashamed or drained as your heart always knows that, there is a someone who is there for you, to hold - to take you up , to encourage - to pull out from all problems and be with you till  the end of the day. And that trust of togetherness is enough to have everything in a life. Not all people have this, not all people can even handle that strain and be in relation too.

So if you have that, than respect that person fully. Love them from bottom of heart and be with them till the end of life and enjoy your relation, which is blessed with such a fragrance.

Everything N Nothing….!

              

U Like the chocolate and sweets the most. right…! And when you have that...
you feel sweet – like Sweeter But still there would be a  time when you have to say
 ‘Ok now – No.’ Stop it.  I can’t resist more than this... just enough of that. Yes, it’s a situation when you have to say no for your most favorite things too because you full of them. Either you feel bitter. 

Same in Life too,If you have too much of anything then you fed up or can’t drained it & If nothing than also you fed up or stressed.

Likewise If u have too much of work load than you feel stressed and boring and can’t make a mind to do a work similarly if you don’t have any work to do than also you feel the same what an accidentally co-incident and the situation of life..! Such tremendous tragedies we feel in our life often. Like lots of friends and ideas make us confuse and not a single friend makes us lonely :( .

That means it’s very necessary to have Everything in proper amount. Then only we can spend it in proper manner.  Whether it’s a work-wealth or warranty :P, if you have any of the things in more than required amount then either its harm you or you may become a careless about that. And then it results into sadness-stress-carelessness-loses and you have the same feeling in reverse manner too when you have Nothing.

So what’s the matter to get too much of anything and running here-and-there to get anything..? At the end what you get is restless and there is no meaning of such a kind of life too. As there is no satisfaction.

Proper requirement makes balance and help to have calmed –satisfied and beautiful life that you can enjoy. So stop running here and there for anything more. Just enjoy the life as it is - as you have - as you are - in current situation. Accept it well and be calm with your life. If something is missing then don’t be just impatient or stress your mind. When time comes then you get that automatically  and if you have lots of then open your hand and mind to help others that gives you a actual  happiness and let you feel wonder in your life.

 

Life at the edge

Some time in a life, have situations where we didn’t find a way..!

Mind racing with the thoughts to handle the things but at the end not satisfied with anyone.

And we take bundles of load on our mind. As we are not ready to accept the current situation. Though we don’t get any solution too..!

And when we look behind then understand, there are lots of thing that we already have but sometime we under estimate & forgot the importance of that. And always in hunger to find a New way – Better opportunity – New Perspective. And it always leads us to wrong edge. And at the end we trap.

When we don’t bother about what we have. Then we ourselves make our life stressful by our own dreamy thoughts - about what we don’t have and feel regret – jealous – anger etc. And that’s the sign of INGRATITUDE & Negativity in a life.

It's really very necessary to have gratitude for … our Destiny, Nature, Health, Family, Money, Relations or whatever we have…….Always say  ‘Thank you God ’   for giving a Life as a human or everything that we already enjoyed till now. Do it before you trap anywhere very dangerously. However it also increase positivity and helps to grow well too.

Let be your soul happy at all the time because whenever you become a sad than whole surrounding becomes negative, you suddenly feel fault-guilty-problems in everything around you. So happily accept what you have & and don’t blame and question for what you don’t have..!

Be calm and joyful to make surrounding warm and healthy. Don’t have too much of dreamily thoughts because you can’t predict anything for future. No one can. So why to stress mind, why to take load and take any unnecessary steps.

Life shows different color every day it’s up to us how to handle that and make our self happy. God never gives more or less to anyone. It’s up to human’s destiny and karma. Karma helps you to decide the path and destiny support them to let them happen in your life.

Maintain proper balance in your though & feelings because your mind thinks something - you act something else and of course due to that what you get is definitely not the result that satisfied you. Its fact if you are just involving through your mind then it will return only money not satisfaction.

So always do anything from pure heart, don’t be jealous, or greedy. Take wise decision to have happiness, dignity & positivity in your life from any edge. As Life always give us challenges from every edge so,

Tangled story in my words

         My very first Edited video : Tangled on song 'Tonight'    

Family & Friends

You can’t compare your two eyes same like that there is no comparison between Family & Friend too.

We can’t say that one is more important then another one. Because if family is soul than friend is breathe and of course you know one can’t live without any of them.

It’s been amazing when u have combination of both a Supportive family and nice friend. Who don’t like combo offer  : P  

U can hangout with friends peacefully only when your family understand you well & when your friend is supportive that helps to win each situation whether it’s a physical stress  or mental.                        

When family makes us confuse than friend show us way and when friend drag us on wrong track then our family track us well. Really such a deadly combination offer.

          Can u imagine happy- emotional - sad - joyful or ...any moment without them …!

Really god creates such a nice creation for human, and provides all kind of amenity in all direction whether it’s a matter of freedom, wealth or feelings as like …. God choose family for us than provides freedom to choose friends. So let’s not be an unfair with anyone to prove our love, support, help or give best to have them fullest.  And YES, also have guts to handle them both with proper balance. And enjoy such an amazing experience of life.

                               

Question for yourself....?

It’s a question… that you should ask to yourself when you feel low or down…?

Is it really that much bad time or situation? That you put bow in your body or hammer on your head just like our super hero ‘Thor’ hurt enemy with his hammer …                    

Y..!   :O   Y..!  We do this...

Don’t give pain to your body as like ’volturi ‘has given to ‘Edward’ in ‘The Twilight saga’ series. & Stop hammering on your mind with questions that won’t last forever. Don’t give pain to your heart - to u body and stop yourself from ruining your mental peace as well as situation. As it will not help you to change the scenarios.

Just chill from that (situation) by taking bath and having chocolate or hanging with butterfly or just do ‘anything’ that you like the most and then see how the sun will brighten your side.

And if you want to boost up yourself  with full of energy then just find out the things that can help you to feel batter and give so much strength like ‘Hulk’ :P , and let you feel most precious like diamond  -

and simply ….. Just do it - just be yourself, let people say whatever they want to say and let situations behaves as any way. 

Have trust in your own.

Positivity and negativity are just the part of life. Don’t let them rule on your body, 1 has to go out to let other comes in.

Hence whenever there is war between situation and will power, power always win at the end, if u really has strong dignity, inner strength and trust. It’s up to our self that what we want to feel, so have faith and keep dreaming that always help you to find your way and to keep boost up with so much positive energy.